As the relatively recent "psychological" movement of Positive
Thinking would have you believe, positive thinking will bring one wealth,
friends, and wealth. That simply thinking happy thoughts will help you
ace that job interview, land the perfect partner, win friends, sway any
argument, and generally come out a winner. Apparently, if I wake up every
morning with a daily affirmation that "I'm good enough, I'm smart enough,
and, by golly, people like me!", I can land whatever I want! If I
repeatedly tell myself "I will get the job, I will get the job, I will get
the job", and perhaps click my heels together three times, I, in fact,
WILL get the job!
What a load of hooey. Positive Thinking seems to be very
based on the idea of getting more
stuff. A bigger house. A better job. More money.
More happiness. All without reflecting on and being content with
what you have. Ambition isn't a four-letter word, but a continual battle
to acquire more stuff eventually
hits a roadblock, and that's where we get down on ourselves.
Coincidentally enough, such a movement really provides another
opportunistic avenue to lay fault squarely on YOU for many systemic issues
keeping people behind. Now, I'm not saying that all bad things that
happen to a person are outside of their control, or that people shouldn't take
responsibility for the circumstances in which they may find themselves.
I'm simply of the mind that saying someone isn't wealthy because they
didn't want it
enough, or because they didn't believe in themselves. Not happy?
Not successful? It's YOUR fault. All your fault. You
should be ashamed.
And, see, I don't buy it. I am absolutely sure that people
do have a say in their future, that each one of us has the ability to influence
the outcomes of daily circumstances. But I don't think that simply
thinking happy thoughts will get you there as some would have you believe.
Rather, I believe that by closely monitoring our perspective of daily
hurdles, we can essentially affect our attitude, which in turn may potentially
lessen the burden.
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