I think, taking a shot in the dark, a large part of it may be our incredible and unrestricted access to information and incessant communication with a larger scope of like-minded individuals. Hear me out: Before Facebook, Twitter, newsfeeds, daily updates, and bloggers of all shapes and forms (the Dark Ages, if you will), most information was gathered from magazines, books, the news (on the television...), and our own circle of influence. We were able to develop our own thoughts and beliefs, defining "liberal" and "conservative" based on our own beliefs, agreeing with some aspects of one group, some from the other, and crafting them into a finely-tuned encyclopedia of personal values. Issues, I believe, were at the forefront - education, taxation, government spending, religion, and interpretations of the Constitution weren't mutually inclusive, where your beliefs regarding one didn't always guarantee where you stood on another. And because of this, cooperation wasn't a four-letter word. Because we each, individually, say across lines and parties, it only made sense that this would continue into the public sector.
Now, however, there's a different situation. Today, we are assaulted with a constant barrage of stimuli. Everyday, wherever we happen to be, we have such unprecedented access to whatever anyone cares to say, no matter how crass, short-sighted, or immature it may be, and we've lost that individual sense of self. I don't recall any traffic law specifying that driver's should not read a newspaper while driving. Now, however, we've all driven down the highway and glanced at the car next to us wherein the driver is completely engrossed in their phone. What this also entails, I believe, is that we're now confronted with what parties are "supposed" to look like. What a good Republican or Democrat should be for. After all, once upon a time, one had to be an actual journalist to reach even one hundred people. Now any average joe can start a blog and spout whatever nonsense he or she thinks people want to read (case in point...). So now, rather than a handful of inputs to consider and bounce off our social circle, we face hundreds, if not thousands every week. Slowly but surely, we are becoming more and more ingrained to what we're "supposed" to believe and the labels that come with one idea or another. And, in an effort to avoid becoming an outcast, we begin to affiliate, gradually, with other concepts linked (somehow) to one or two with which we first sided. And I believe this works both ways: reading a post written to (more often than not) an extreme 180 degrees of your perspective, the less you affiliate with those beliefs to any extent - and push us further into partisan positions.
Just look at Facebook. Go on, scroll through a few posts. Chances are, there's at least one talking politics (in some way, shape, or form). Soon, this may just become a full-blown virtual battle, and, if you pay close enough attention, often you'll find people chiming in, people you know, who, you realize, don't actually have a horse in this race. Gun control is a great example. On the left, we need more restriction. On the right, less. It doesn't really matter what you actually think about guns anymore. It's about maintaining your loyalty to your chosen brand.
Just look at Facebook. Go on, scroll through a few posts. Chances are, there's at least one talking politics (in some way, shape, or form). Soon, this may just become a full-blown virtual battle, and, if you pay close enough attention, often you'll find people chiming in, people you know, who, you realize, don't actually have a horse in this race. Gun control is a great example. On the left, we need more restriction. On the right, less. It doesn't really matter what you actually think about guns anymore. It's about maintaining your loyalty to your chosen brand.
Go on, ask any Mac user if they're willing to trade in for a PC. And vice versa. The Mac user will most certainly decline, citing the simplicity of the operating system, the ability to sync it with other Mac devices, and/or the Mac software. And PC will argue that they've got the better deal as well, of course. Now, sifting through all the B.S., unless you're using one or the other for work-related reasons (I hear Mac has better video editing software), is one inherently better than the other? Of course not. But we've invested so much of ourselves into the idea that we're right that anything to contrary must be wrong.
And so it goes with politics. How about we stop thinking about which brand we've invested in, and actually start looking at the issues. I know it's a big step, but how about a dialogue - not a debate, not a right vs. wrong argument, but an actual dialogue in which we try to understand opposing view points. Surrounding ourselves with the same perspective will most certainly leave us seeing the same thing.
Post Script: Seeking to understand one another is not as simple as waiting for your turn to talk. Please, stop nodding your head, shrugging your shoulders, and responding "well, it's the way I feel." They say that when you stop learning, you should be six feet under. Well, until you actually listen, you're as good as entombed.